Happy Tuesday. I haven’t really been in the mood to feel ‘happy’ about all that much as of late. I’ve tried to do little things to feel uplifted; however, they’re just temporary fixes. The real issue at hand hasn’t changed and; in fact, it’ll only get worse.
Recently, I had the chance to talk to a friend about my mom’s circumstances and I felt lighter by the end of our conversation. No solutions, no answers, no worries. Sometimes you don’t need to fix the problem, only to ease the pain.
It does make it easier to chat with someone who truly understands … especially since they’ve gone through it. I don’t have to hear (yet again) “I hope your mom gets better”.
Simply put: she will not be getting better. Ever.
I don’t want to sound mean, but that’s the reality of it.
(((hugs)))
sadly she will not get better. i just hope and pray that she gets into a home soon, somewhere where she can have some of her personal things, have activities to keep her happy, nicer meals and a better place for you to visit her. thinking lots about you and your mom xoxoxoxo.
Good friends to talk with and share our burdens are a real blessing.